The populace think that your rejection of popular standards is a rejection of
all standard, and mere antinomianism; and the bold sensualist will use the name
of philosophy to gild his crimes. But the law of consciousness abides. There are
two confessionals, in one or the other of which we must be shriven. You may
fulfil your round of duties by clearing yourself in the direct, or in the reflex
way. Consider whether you have satisfied your relations to father, mother,
cousin, neighbor, town, cat, and dog; whether any of these can upbraid you. But
I may also neglect this reflex standard and absolve me to myself. I have my own
stern claims and perfect circle. It denies the name of duty to many offices that
are called duties. But if I can discharge its debts it enables me to dispense
with the popular code. If any one imagines that this law is lax, let him keep
its commandment one day.
And truly it demands something godlike in him who has cast off the common
motives of humanity and has ventured to trust himself for a taskmaster. High be
his heart, faithful his will, clear his sight, that he may in good earnest be
doctrine, society, law, to himself, that a simple purpose may be to him as
strong as iron necessity is to others!
If any man consider the present aspects of what is called by distinction
society, he will see the need of these ethics. The sinew and heart of man seem
to be drawn out, and we are become timorous, desponding whimperers. We are
afraid of truth, afraid of fortune, afraid of death and afraid of each other.
Our age yields no great and perfect persons. We want men and women who shall
renovate life and our social state, but we see that most natures are insolvent,
cannot satisfy their own wants, have an ambition out of all proportion to their
practical force and do lean and beg day and night continually. Our housekeeping
is mendicant, our arts, our occupations, our marriages, our religion we have not
chosen, but society has chosen for us. We are parlor soldiers. We shun the
rugged battle of fate, where strength is born.
If our young men miscarry in their first enterprises they lose all heart. If the
young merchant fails, men say he is ruined. If the finest genius studies at one
of our colleges and is not installed in an office within one year afterwards in
the cities or suburbs of Boston or New York, it seems to his friends and to
himself that he is right in being disheartened and in complaining the rest of
his life. A sturdy lad from New Hampshire or Vermont, who in turn tries all the
professions, who teams it, farms it, peddles, keeps a school, preaches, edits a
newspaper, goes to Congress, buys a township, and so forth, in successive years,
and always like a cat falls on his feet, is worth a hundred of these city dolls.
He walks abreast with his days and feels no shame in not 'studying a
profession,' for he does not postpone his life, but lives already. He has not
one chance, but a hundred chances. Let a Stoic open the resources of man and
tell men they are not leaning willows, but can and must detach themselves; that
with the exercise of self-trust, new powers shall appear; that a man is the word
made flesh, born to shed healing to the nations; that he should be ashamed of
our compassion, and that the moment he acts from himself, tossing the laws, the
books, idolatries and customs out of the window, we pity him no more but thank
and revere him;--and that teacher shall restore the life of man to splendor and
make his name dear to all history.
It is easy to see that a greater self-reliance must work a revolution in all the
offices and relations of men; in their religion; in their education; in their
pursuits; their modes of living; their association; in their property; in their
speculative views.
1. In what prayers do men allow themselves! That which they call a holy office
is not so much as brave and manly. Prayer looks abroad and asks for some foreign
addition to come through some foreign virtue, and loses itself in endless mazes
of natural and supernatural, and mediatorial and miraculous. Prayer that craves
a particular commodity, any thing less than all good, is vicious. Prayer is the
contemplation of the facts of life from the highest point of view. It is the
soliloquy of a beholding and jubilant soul. It is the spirit of God pronouncing
his works good. But prayer as a means to effect a private end is meanness and
theft. It supposes dualism and not unity in nature and consciousness. As soon as
the man is at one with God, he will not beg. He will then see prayer in all
action. The prayer of the farmer kneeling in his field to weed it, the prayer of
the rower kneeling with the stroke of his oar, are true prayers heard throughout
nature, though for cheap ends. Caratach, in Fletcher's Bonduca, when admonished
to inquire the mind of the god Audate, replies,--
"His hidden meaning lies in our endeavors;
Our valors are our best gods."
Another sort of false prayers are our regrets. Discontent is the want of
self-reliance: it is infirmity of will. Regret calamities if you can thereby
help the sufferer; if not, attend your own work and already the evil begins to
be repaired. Our sympathy is just as base. We come to them who weep foolishly
and sit down and cry for company, instead of imparting to them truth and health
in rough electric shocks, putting them once more in communication with their own
reason. The secret of fortune is joy in our hands. Welcome evermore to gods and
men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide; him all tongues
greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him
and embraces him because he did not need it. We solicitously and apologetically
caress and celebrate him because he held on his way and scorned our
disapprobation. The gods love him because men hated him. "To the persevering
mortal," said Zoroaster, "the blessed Immortals are swift."
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